mayyam1203的部落格

索華從不化妝，更談不上整形，她說一番整潔就好了，                                
                                                                                     
微笑是她最好的化妝品。                                                            
                                                                                     
她懂得以內養外，大量吃水果青菜，                                                 
                                                                                     
便宜簡單清清淡淡，卻是極養顏的；                                                 
                                                                                     
她關注生命，談環保，                                                              
                                                                                     
衣服只穿純棉和麻，不貴卻都 極有特點，                                            
                                                                                     
鞋子只穿低跟，因為舒適美觀，                                                     
                                                                                     
雖然她個子不高；長長的直髮 ，留了很多年，                                       
                                                                                     
不染不燙也不做造型，打理頭髮幾乎不花錢，                                         
                                                                                     
只用一把好梳子就可以了；                                                          
                                                                                     
她從不上健身房，不追逐時尚，                                                     
                                                                                     
因為她始終堅持內心的方向，                                                       
                                                                                     
她每天堅持步行，                                                                  
                                                                                     
曬 曬太陽走走路就是極好的鍛煉了，                                                
                                                                                     
不用任何成本並且環保。                                                            
                                                                                     
她說：                                                                             
                                                                                     
『外貌實際上是一個女人的夕陽產業，投資越大，收益就越小。』                      
                                                                                     
26歲時，索華放棄了一份升遷的工作從容地要了孩子，                                
                                                                                     
她的身體恢復得很快，如今 36歲，孩子也大了；                                     
                                                                                     
她也從不討好她的老公，從不學什麼馴夫技巧，                                       
                                                                                     
絕對地放養，老公卻很愛她，                                                       
                                                                                     
總誇她是個有特點的女人，不流俗。                                                 
                                                                                     
她說：                                                                             
                                                                                     
『好女人是創造氛圍的，她喜歡看書，                                               
                                                                                     
誰規定主婦一定要填飽老公的胃呢？』                                               
                                                                                     
她赤足坐在客廳的地上看書，也帶動孩子，                                           
                                                                                     
還要放上舒緩優美的鄉村音樂，                                                     
                                                                                     
一家人的氣氛就這麼形成了，沒費吹灰之力，                                         
                                                                                     
孩子也形成了愛看書的習慣；                                                       
                                                                                     
她喜歡大自然，就帶上老公孩子一起玩。                                             
                                                                                     
她這個主婦當得雲淡風輕。                                                          
                                                                                     
當我向她訴苦說女人帶孩子太累時，她笑笑說：                                       
                                                                                     
『讓孩子圍著你轉啊！女人是可以製造氛圍的。』                                    
                                                                                     
她是家中的一個磁場，                                                              
                                                                                     
不改變自己，不取悅別人，卻照樣很滋潤，                                           
                                                                                     
並且一家人生活極有質量。                                                          
                                                                                     
這是跟物質無關的，                                                                
                                                                                     
一個心靈自由的女人才能把家庭的生活拓展開來。                                    
                                                                                     
跟索華分手後，                                                                    
                                                                                     
我還在想索華說的低成本做女人，真是妙極！